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15 Ways to Improve Your Site in 5 Minutes

There is not a single site that is perfect. All of the sites can use some work and updates. In this post I will show you some of the ways you can improve your website but under 5 minutes. Well at least most of them took me under 5 minutes to go through. They are [...]



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How To Ask For Links To Your Blog

In my previous post, I shared How Not To Ask For Links To Your Blog. So well this post, I will be showing you how you can get backlinks to your blog from other bloggers. I have seen that people who are desperate for links are those who are starting out, and they often make mistakes that effect their blog’s reputation significantly.

Some say just write quality content, and you will get links to your blog. But it is really hard to get blogs to link to you when your readership is small. A lot of of my newer posts have no links even though they are one of the better ones. Some of the great tutorials are toward the beginning of the blog. Well this is when you would need to ask other bloggers to link to you. Sounds simple, but it is not.

Some Ideas for you to consider:

You must make sure that your content is best of the best if you are approaching one of the top bloggers. Because I certainly won’t link to a post that you wrote in 30 minutes between your break from work.

Check if the Blogger Links out

Find out whether the blog links out. Some blogs never link out whereas others link out almost all the time. Take Engadget for example. They link out just about every time. Then there are blogs that have weekly link roundups. My Blog, and several other blogs in the blogosphere. Then there are ones that never link out. So you would be wasting your time if you pitch a story to someone who never links out.

Learn the blog inside out. You need to know what type of stories they link to, how they link to them and more. The more you know the better you will be prepared. The more prepared you are, your chances of getting a backlink would be higher. Some blogs even present you with methods to pitch them stories with contact forms dedicated to story submissions, so make sure you look around.

Relevant Content

Don’t expect a webmaster blog to link to your blog if you run a real estate blog. So only suggest posts that are highly relevant to their website. So don’t bother if your story isn’t relevant because not only you will waste your time, but you will waste the other blogger’s time.

Save it for your Best Content

Don’t just go out and promote all of your posts. Save it for your best posts. Because I definitely don’t want to link to your blog every week unless you have a best post every week. Hint: Always think of your post from other blogger’s perspective.

Ask them to link to your articles, not blog

Don’t email bloggers asking for links to your blog. Ask them to link to your article. Remember if someone comes to your article, he is coming to your site, so it is actually better than getting a link to your homepage.

Suggest Guest Posts with Resources

Write guest posts for bloggers. I always welcome guest bloggers on Balkhis. Your chances of getting your post approved would be even more if you attach pictures with it because you will save bloggers a lot of time. Also since guest posts are mutually beneficial, your chances of getting approved is much higher.

Be Personal, Polite, and Helpful

Use their name, show that you know their blog etc. Remember no one likes a Kiss ASS. However be careful when doing this to multiple blogs – you don’t want to personalize an email and then send it to the wrong blogger – major embarrassment! Always be polite in your email, and make it brief. Always include details that will help them. Save them time and get to the point. No need to make the email long.

Don’t just limit to top bloggers

Often times people ignore some of the B, C, D list bloggers because they think they won’t get a lot of traffic from them. So they only pitch to the bigger bloggers. Half of the times their requests get rejected. You need to think that if you get about 30 small blogs get approved, you will have 30 links and more users.

Now if you follow the steps above you will be likely to get more links. Always remember that if a blogger links to you, then you make better relationship with them. Always keep in touch with them, so it does not seem like that you always come to them when you need something. Enjoy more links for your blog.



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How Not To Ask For Links To Your Blog

New blogs are popping up left and right. There are thousands of blogs that claim to teach you how to make money online. There are hundreds of bloggers that are self-proclaimed web experts. Each blogger is trying to get the most traffic, most backlinks, and the most credibility. There are certain popular figures like Darren Rowse, Shoemoney, and others. At the same time there are new coming in the industry. So you get to ask a question how do new blogs get famous? Well they get links from other bloggers and that is how their reader base increases. I have been started to receive this sort of emails quiet a lot, so I have decided to mention here on my blog how not to ask for a backlink to your blog.

Here is what these emails sound like:

My name is XXX XXXX and I’m a great fan of Balkhis! Balkhis inspired me to create my own blog. I would like to share my knowledge as an entrepreneur with other entrepreneurs. Since linkbuiliding is very important, I want to ask you if you want to trade links with me. If so, please answer me and I will put a link to your site on my homepage, so you can link back to me!

Never ever ever ask a blogger to trade links with you if you are starting a blog. Specially one that is already well known. You know why? Because he or she will turn you down. Before you ask for trading links you need to consider:

What do you get if they link to you?

What will they get if they link to you?

Who is getting the most benefit?

If the benefit is not mutual, then you will not get a link. But it will prove one thing for sure. That you are an idiot for asking. You want to start a web developers blog claiming yourself an expert and then begging for a link? Doesn’t really sound like an expert.

Another thing wrong with the email above is Kissing Ass. No one like Kiss Ass except for another Kiss Ass. I obviously won’t consider you as a special case if you put you are a great balkhis fan. So never ever start of saying that you are a big fan of them. Because by saying that you already put yourself below them.

Even though you need a link, you do not need to make yourself inferior. Try to stay on same ground.

Never ask a link for your main site. Because only idiots will link to your main site without knowing you. Blogroll links are usually bought or linked to special friends. If I don’t know, I won’t link to you.

These are the few things that I can think of right now of how not to ask for backlinks. Keep updated with my blog because in the next post I will show you how to ask for a link.



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List of WordPress Plugins being Used on Balkhis

So people ask me, Syed which plugins are you using on your blog. Why my blog is more SEO Friendly? That doesn’t really have a whole lot to do with my plugins. Well not entirely, but I will make a list for all of you guys just in case you were curious. So after this post, do not email me asking me about what plugins I am using. I will list the plugins, hopefully with the download link and I will provide you some tips if I have any, and the reasons why I use them.

Balkhis in total use 16 Wordpress Plugins

  1. Akismet – A plugin that comes with all wordpress blogs by default. I suggest you use it. Get an API Key, and get protected against Spam. Recently I wrote about Another Spam Technique You should be Aware of. So make sure you read that.
  2. All in One SEO Pack – This is one of the MOST important plugin for your blog’s SEO. This is one of the plugins that is giving me an advantage in my Search Engine Ranking. It is also one of the most popular plugin on Wordpress. It has reached over million downloads. I have written a post on what settings to use in All in One SEO Pack. Those are the settings I am using on Balkhis. I will recommend you to use a different title, unique keywords, and meta description for each post and each page. This plays a key role in your blog’s SEO.
  3. Author Highlight – This plugin makes my comment look different than the rest. So I can put my different css settings or a different background image. It just helps the user identify if the comment is by me. Advantage of this plugin is that if you have a lot of comments on a post a new reader can easily find what you wrote in the comments.
  4. Breadcrumb Navigation XT – This plugin basically creates a path that user has been visiting. So if you open up a post of mine. Right below the title, it will show it is in which category and the path. It actually helps in Search Engine Bots Crawling because the bots know how to get to each place. So if they come to one of my post, they will eventually go around the whole site. I think this plays an important role in SEO. But maybe its just me.
  5. Brian’s Threaded Comments – Threaded Comments explains it all. But if you don’t know what it is talking about. Basically, it lets your user have a conversation within their comments. Usually by default wordpress will let you reply, but not in a threaded way. This way people can easily who replied to their comments. I personally like Brian’s Threaded Comment. There are tons of other ones, but I prefer this one. If you want more tips on how to pimp your comment area read my post.
  6. Comment Relish – You want to get more subscribers? Well this is one of the ways. You get a new user who leaves you a comment. You approve it, and this plugin will send an automatic email to them. More of a personal note thanking them for their comment. You can add your subscription link in there and you will get more subscribers.
  7. FeedBurner FeedSmith – This plugin basically make your wordpress default feed and redirect it to your feedburner feed. So this way your subscribers aren’t lost, and all of them will be counted.
  8. Limit Post – You see on my home page that featured post is just a summary. Well not even a summary, just an excerpt. Well this plugin lets me do that. Good for magazine style themes.
  9. OIO Publisher – The best plugin to maintain your ad space. I have been using it since I started this blog. I will tell you that I spent the money to buy it because it is a paid plugin. But I made my money back two times the amount within the first week. So this is the one that is well worth it. Saves all your trouble for making separate subscription for your advertisers and more. I use it because It is versatile and very handy.
  10. Show Top Commentators Widget – You know what encourages commentators? Rewards. You notice them and reward them, they will comment more. Pretty simple. You list your top commentators as a do follow link from your site, and they would want it. Because it is free. So go ahead and get this plugin now.
  11. Subscribe to Comments – Well you want your readers to come back. I certainly do that is why I offer this option. When a reader comments, there is a check bar that asks if they want to subscribe to the comment. So basically on that post, if any one else leaves a comment after them, they will get a notification in their email. It is an excellent thing to have if your readers ask you question. Because this way they can know whether you replied to their comment or not.
  12. Wordpress Database Backup – Basically this keeps me on the safe side. Every day there is a backup emailed to me. So I have one in record just in case if I make a mistake or get hacked, I have something to rely on.

    Check my other article on How to protect your blog from hackers?

  13. WP-ContactForm – This is what enables me to have a contact form and let you guys contact me. This is a very important plugin to me because I value my reader’s opinion. Here are the reasons why you should enable your readers to contact you.
  14. WP-Page Navi – Do you see the cool pagination on my blog. Well it is from this plugin. I don’t like the default wordpress way of Next and Previous. This help me make it a little bit more cooler :)
  15. WP Security Scan – Just another plugin that I have on my blog that tells me whether my blog is secure. If you want to be on the safe side get this plugin.
  16. WP Super Cache – Do you know why my blog even though after being such a big size loads very fast? Well it is because of this plugin. This plugin have actually saved me multiple times. When I got insane amount of traffic from Stumbleupon and Digg. It just caches the post and shows the user the same version, so it saves a lot of server load. Get this plugin if you want to decrease your load time.

    I wrote a post about Killing a Giant Lion Turtle with your site’s load time

That is my list of plugins that I use. Hopefully this have helped you guys. There are tons of other great plugins out there that you can use. These are not the only ones. Always look for additional ones as your needs require. Do not email me this question again because I swear I got so many that I thought that I must make this, so I don’t answer the questions individually.



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Another Spam Commenting Technique You Should be Aware of

Well last night, I was going through my spam folder which was about 340 some comments. I came across a few known names. Well these names were my regular readers specially those who are in my top commentator’s list. So without noticing, I de-spammed those comments. Usually what I do is, I de-spam the comment if it sounds genuine, and then when I go to the comment page, I try to reply to them.

The reason why I marked them not spam was because I know these were my regular readers. They each had a new website, so I thought they just started a new website and want to promote that. Since I was going through 340 comments, I was sort of rushing. So I didn’t check which IP address this comment was from.

Now here we are talking about multiple comments about 12 that were from my regular readers, or so I thought. Silvia, Ann Harbor Web Design, and Nicole Price. If you notice they are actually in my top commentator list. They are ranked among the top 3.

Well after I marked them not spam along with a lot others, I came back to reply to them. These comments were so genuine, but they were all on one post. So the spammer basically replied about my recent posts, on one of my very high ranked / good PR post with different links. Now since the comments were about recent posts, I didn’t think it was spam.

But when I saw all 12 comments were on that one post, I realized I was caught in a spam trap. Anyways, I had to mark those comments as spam again.

I did notice that they were all from the same IP, just different emails after the fact. So I eneded up disallowing that IP Address.

But that was a clever technique whoever tried. It got me for a few minutes, but than I realized, so next time try harder.

I thought I should let you guys know if you get something like this, so you know what to do.



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